It has been a minute

It has been a minute. But, I am working on this blog thing and I am attempting to secure other things that are writing related. So, whatsup. Obviously, if you are like me...you are one of these people that notice things and speak/write about them.

I was looking in the paper this week (AM New York) and I saw where fashion bloggers generate loads of popularity, by blogging daily. Pretty cool. I like blogging, but I don't have that much to say...everyday.

Speaking of not having that much to say, everyday. I think this is a masculine trait. And not to be refuted, I lean on this idea as true. I just don't think men should have so much to say...all the time. Unless, you are a news anchorman or you host a daily show. Otherwise, why always be found talking. Press pause, in extreme cases....STOP.

Feminine energy. What can I say, it is beauty in a good form, when it is owned by a woman. That being said, someone please inform two groups of people about feminine energy and how it manifest itself. And more importantly, tell them to stop with it. So, about those groups. I notice mainly two. First, the new hip crowd. This new crowd of skinny jean wearing, cutsie tootsie mannered, accessoried from head to toe, talkative, always want to be around guy friends crowd. Please...help me reverse the curse. Men shouldn't see men's draws. Two, your legs are not for display. Three, get in the gym and body build. Do some manly things...stop the "where is my homeboy-itis"...Ladies, if you have sons, do not raise them to be cute. Last but not least....obviously, teach them tact and timing. Always talking is "bitchy" to manly men. And these punks are bitchy.

Group number two are the guys who watch other guys and always claim that they have Gay-dar as far as men's actions are concerned. Notice how I said these two groups possess feminine energy, not that they are gay. These Gaydar rebels think everything that they do not approve of is....gay. Cut it. This is not only feminine, but it is not manly. It is also "loser" energy. Stop watching men, so close. Guys can shout out other guys in a masculine way. Guys can wear clothing and fashion in a way that is smooth and player player. Yet, you should stop acting like everything that is not "Killa thug" is the opposite. The opposite of thug is not homo. The opposite of thug is productive person. Cut it out. Real players take chances in life (fashion included) and just because you wont...does not mean someone is "homo"!

I mentor 10-15 young men and these are issues that I see. I am really getting prepped to focus my whole movement (educational, artistic and life-oriented) towards helping Black Men....we really need to focus on black men. The Kids have help. Women have help. And now...Black men need help. Here is my way of helping....