Collage Days

Some days, I like many others have many things to say. I wanted to talk about relationships and the process of the cold approach that guys have to experience when furthering their interest in a love interest. The only thing I can say about this is...how gruesome. How horrendous is it for a guy to muster up the courage to approach a female, with the hopes of generating a good result? I'd say very horrendous. By the time a guy is 25, he has seen every mixed signal in the book and has experienced all of the shields that women feel they have to put up! My advice...don't waste time. People (women included) have a way of showing interest, and now that everyone is soooo independent and against traditional norms, guess what....she can approach you.

And after leaving the sphere of relationships, I enter the realm of the US and hate. These two go together. Why? This is what we do best. There is an article that says the US is not number one in the Western Hemisphere. And we owe this wonderful standing to none other than the one and only "itself"...you got it..."competition"! Can you believe it? Spurned by hatred, kept alive by greed...yes competition fuels hatred and what we hate, we don't support. Thanks to this, we hate each other, we talk shit about each other, we crucify and take from each other, we don't believe in each other and we don't experience each other in all fullness. These are the grounds for competition and yes no one gives, therefore, since we are not into promoting our own talent and since we send work overseas...for bigger profits...we suffer. Oh well, who cares...good ole' America right. Divine Transformation needed.

After we leave here, we join hands with Soul and as I was studying Divine Transformation and meditating on it...I came accross a line that said everything has a soul. I have always thought this and will continue to think this. I also notice how very few see this. Everything has a soul. Soul is in the way we speak, act, do and conduct ourselves. This soul/passion is missing in life and morale. Many people think its mind over matter. Transformation says it soul over matter. Can you say..."look at the NBA"? Look at life...just observe people's behavior. I went to Moca Lounge in Harlem on Saturday...it was a sit-down fest. The music doesn't move people anymore. The fashion doesn't move people. People get dressed to come out and look at cell phones and each other. No soul in the interaction. Just dead. Too many of us live in our heads...like Chaka Khan said...you tell me you're going to play it smart/we're threw before we start"! I miss the soul of life. If you're a barber, make the clipper an extension of your hand. If you play ball, play like its the first or last game. Make a dunk and a jump shot a thing of beauty...and please...play some d. If you like fashion, dress like never before and show your style. If you are social, socialize like now is forever. Have soul and live....GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD!

And LIVE OUT LOUD!